Attraction at its finest..

Attraction...

Do you believe in love at first sight? Is it possible to look at a person for the first time and just know they are my perfect match in life? They are who I want to be with forever?

To say that I believe in love at first sight is unreal for me. Attraction goes so much deeper then what is on the outside of a person.  I dont believe that just by looking at someone that I would know that they were the "perfect" guy for me.  

Every single person you meet is for a reason... Even if you just meet them one night and never talk to them again there is a reason that you met them. We encounter many people a day in our busy lives, so who do we learn to trust? Who carries traits that we want in a significant other? 

I dont believ that there is a "perfect" guy, but I do believe that there is a "perfect" guy for me. I know what I   like and what I dont like in a man-it is a process to know who the "perfect" guy is for you. Peeling the layers down to get to know someone is the best part of the process. You learn character and compatibility and intrests...you connect on a deeper level  just by knowing someones favorite color. 

Attraction is key to any succesful relationship. It goes so much deeper then physical attraction...someones brain and style and character is all part of attraction.  

Motivation..

Motivation is the driving force by which humans achieve their goals
This is what Wikipedia claims is the definition of Motivation..

Now what do I think Motivation is:

Having goals that are achievable. Wanting to succeed in the best way possible, and having ONE thing worth fighting for. If you can have ONE thing to fight for you can do anything you set your mind to.  Some people say their kids are worth fighting for- some say their spouse, or their family/friends/or even their job, but whatever that one thing is it has to be something amazing. Something that when you feel like giving up...you push harder then you ever have...you dedicate  your time making sure you succeed in whatever it is that you may be doing. 
Seeing the finish line is the an amazing feeling, but words dont describe what it feels like to pass the finish line. Achieving your goals, and not only for yourself, but for that one person, or thing that motivated you to get to the end.

I recently just started crossfit. I have always considered myself an "athlete" playing soccer for 16 years and what not, but soccer is over..Being in shape doesnt come as easy as 1.2.3.  I am not a morning person what so ever, but 6 am classes were the only one that fit my scheldule. I knew what I had to do. As much as I dont want to wake up at 515am to get to class, and as much as I feel like I am going to die during workouts...something in me MAKES ME PUSH THROUGH.

I can honestly say that my motivation is my dad and sister. We have been through a lot in the last few months, and pushing myself to become better to look better and to feel better, makes me see the strength that I have for myself. I know that I am strong with those 2 by my side, and I needed motivation to make sure that I was strong on my own. I could not do this without them and their support. To have people believe in you and KNOW that you can do it is such an amazing thing. ...They are my "people/things" worth fighting for.

The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible.
Arthur C. Clarke